Helps you say what matters most—before the moment passes.
This toolkit makes it easy to speak truth and encouragement over your child—right when it counts.
A Simple Way to Build Them Up
You already love your child deeply, and they need to
hear it in words.
But sometimes, it’s hard to find the words—or the time to say them. This gives you a place to start—so you can slow down for a moment and say the things your child needs to hear:
More Than Just Coloring Pages
Sure, they’re fun—but they’re also a sneaky little way to start a good conversation.
While your kid’s busy coloring, you get to bring up things that matter—without it feeling heavy or forced.



Want to help build character and raise confident girls?
This toolkit gives you simple ways to slow down, speak life, and help them see the good you see.
Packed with trait cards, a keepsake template, reflection prompts, note cards, and coloring pages, it gives you a fun, stress-free way to build character and confidence—one genuine conversation at a time.
Because let’s be real…the world will try to tear them down. This helps us pour truth in first.
We’ve made it easy with ready-to-use tools that help you speak truth, shape character, and build confidence from the inside out.
Helps you say what matters most—before the moment passes.
This toolkit makes it easy to speak truth and encouragement over your child—right when it counts.
Gives you simple tools to help build their character.
Everything you need—trait cards, templates, and prompts—to help build character through simple, intentional conversations.
Notice the good on purpose!
It's a gentle nudge to pause, see your child clearly, and remind them of all the good you see inside.
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Looking for a simple and powerful way to encourage your son?
This version helps you speak straight to his heart—with traits and prompts that help him feel strong, seen, and deeply known.

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This bundle gives you both the boys’ and girls’ versions—so each child feels uniquely seen and celebrated.
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It all starts here: The I Am Template
Print the trait cards, cut them out, and sit down with your child to choose the ones that fit them best—whether it’s who they already are (kind, brave, helpful) or who they’re growing into.
As you glue each one onto the template, talk about what that word means and why you chose it for them. It’s such a simple activity, but the conversations it sparks? So powerful.
You know that look your kid gets when you brag on them a little!
Create a simple keepsake your child can see every day—a sweet reminder that they are known, loved, and celebrated.
Then, watch them light up from the inside out as they see the words you've chosen to describe them! Priceless!!


125 printable note cards—three for each character trait, plus a few bonus cards!
These printable cards make it easy to say the things you mean to say more often.
Just pick a character trait, fill in the prompt, and leave it somewhere your child will find it.
It’s a small gesture that can make a big difference—because being seen in the little moments matters.
Speak straight to their heart!
Use the fill-in-the-blank cards to encourage your child in small, powerful ways—whether it’s taped to a mirror or tucked under their pillow.


40 Character Based Coloring Sheets
Each page is tied to a character trait—like honesty, kindness, or courage—and includes a simple question to help your child connect the dots.
It’s a playful and powerful way to reinforce the good you see in them.
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What Do You See in Me? Template
Make a visual reminder your child can see daily, showing them just how seen and loved they are.
Includes 40 descriptive character trait cards with kid-friendly definitions—perfect for sparking conversations about who they are and what makes them special.
125 Printable Note Cards
Each card features a character trait and a simple prompt to help you express what you see in your child.
Tuck them into lunchboxes, backpacks, or under pillows—or tape them to a mirror—as gentle reminders that your child is seen and loved.
40 Character Themed Coloring Pages
These fun, printable pages give your child a creative and meaningful way to reflect on each character trait.
Each page includes a simple question to spark conversation while they color—making it easy to talk about who they are as they do something they love.









Help your child see what you already see in them.
No perfect words needed—just your heart and these simple tools.
Because your voice? It matters more than you know.
Created for Real Life Parents (Like You!)
What Do You See in Me? was made for real families and real moments—bedtime chats, after-school car rides, dinner table talks, or those quiet minutes before lights out.
You can use it all at once or a little at a time -
whatever works for you.
No pressure. Just presence.
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This is for you IF...
You want your child to truly believe in their strengths.
Imagine them hearing:
"You're persistent - I noticed you didn't give up."
“You’re creative—your ideas always make things more fun.”
And actually believing it.
You want to notice character moments that matter.
Picture your child's face lighting up when you acknowledge their patience, determination, or thoughtfulness in specific moments.
You love seeing your child's smile when they feel truly seen.
Imagine their eyes lighting up when they find your note under their pillow:
“I loved watching you help your brother today—you were so kind and patient.”
These tiny moments of being seen? They mean everything.
Every child wants to know: What do others see in me?
That quiet question lives in the hearts of our kids, whether they say it or not.
This toolkit was created to help you answer it—on purpose, with love, and with words that stick.
Hey y'all!
We’re Gary and Kasey—parents of four, with two in college and two still in elementary school.
Over the years, we’ve seen just how powerful it is when kids feel truly seen and encouraged, not just for what they do, but for who they’re becoming.
This toolkit was born from a moment that stopped us in our tracks. One day, someone called our youngest “trash” on the playground. And in that moment, we realized—while we thought we were speaking life over our kids, we weren’t always being as specific or intentional as we could.
That question—What do others see in me?—is something every child quietly wonders.
We created this resource to help you answer that question with purpose—using simple words, ordinary moments, and meaningful connection.

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Frequently Asked Questions
You have questions...and WE have answers!!
Do I need to print all the pages at once?
Not at all! We recommend starting with the keepsake template, trait cards, and adjective definitions. Then, you can print encouragement notes and coloring pages as you focus on each trait—just a little at a time, when it works for you.
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